It was Jimi Hendrix who was prescient enough to realize that our struggle with love and power is the decisive battle of our time. How we share and utilize them, where we spend them, and what we do in their name is the foundation of what makes us God in our own Soloverse.
There is no way to repress the power of another against there will and call it a loving act. Not even with a petulant child. It is true that their behavior may be restricted to protect them from harm, it must be done so that their spirit is not oppressed or shamed, or damaged as part of that event.